For the first 90 chapters MC gets kicked around and stepped on, but after that everything chances. The romance pacing is slow but deliberate, and well thought out. While the main character does build himself a harem, he isn't just collecting woman left and right, but takes his time to build a strong and authentic relationships. Each of the heroines is unique and interesting and their affection feels believable and earned. This is a story about standing up for yourself and reclaiming your life. It's also a story about redemption and forgiveness.